Here's what the beloved little voice had to say to me today: it's not your time yet, sweetie.
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I struggled, and still struggle, to find my thing, my niche, my area of expertise that all others look to me for guidance on. I'm looking for a way to be powerful, because I'm afraid of what it means to not have power. In a world where I need money and power to be safe, being niche-less means I am vulnerable.
I'm starting to think that's ok.
It's not my time yet to be a leader. I don't have experience to share yet. What I can share is my time and my attention. I can be a conscious follower. I can be part of the village, and I can learn from my elders. The older I get, and the more the scales of stubborn independence fall away from my eyes, the more I realize how much there is to learn from my elders.
I hope that, someday, it will be my time to lead. And I hope I'll do it from a place of soft wisdom and peace, instead of hard anxiety and fear.
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My belief is that anyone with the interest and desire to learn can be a leader. You may have more to share than you think - don't think you just have to wait until an obvious moment, or until you have "enough" to share. Gotta start somewhere! There is *always* more to learn, and being a leader in some ways doesn't mean not being a follower in others.
I agree with what you're saying. I think I have enough experience to be a good mentor. My sentiment comes more from a place of accepting what true leadership is, and the kind of leader I want to be. In that old Aesop's fable, I want to be the Sun, not the Wind.
It very much is all about the "come-from place," as a certain wise friend of mine says. ;)
ah, yes, such a wise person to say such wise things!
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"What I can share is my time and my attention. I can be a conscious follower. I can be part of the village, and I can learn from my elders. The older I get, and the more the scales of stubborn independence fall away from my eyes, the more I realize how much there is to learn from my elders."
Oh man. Yeah. I remember that happening. Here's a tip: It keeps on happening. I learn more when I stop and listen, even in the areas that I consider myself to possess some "expertise." There's always someone who knows more, or if not more, just something *different* that makes a difference in my own life.
Keep on keeping on!
Right on! I am definitely playing with the patting-head-rubbing-belly feeling that is confidence + deference. Sounds like what you're saying too. Thanks for sharing, Jenna.
Yes , I know you're absolutely right . I'm always learning
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